Apr 122011

From our Tumblr site at http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/ it’s Top Tumblr Tuesday #5.

We have had a very interesting past few days. That combined with a huge amount of sexy tumblrs to choose from has made this weeks choice quite a challenge. In the end I narrowed the list down to a baker’s dozen and SexFairy selected seven, and I got down to two. So it’s a double TTT today.
Top Tumblr Tuesday #5aTop Tumblr Tuesday #5b
The first one is more Whitman’s. It makes me think of the punishments SexFairy is still slated to receive. I so can’t wait. The second one is from the tumblr of the female half of some new friends of ours.

Click each photo to see it larger on our Tumblr site..

Finally, I thought it would be appropriate to share the “runner ups”, in no particular order.


Of course, what tumblr site is complete without a pussy. Yes, I mean the really cute kitten kind. http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4476095630

Apr 122011

One of the things I love about Good Vibrations is their selection of sexy kits. They were nice enough to send us their “Celebrate Yourself” kit to review, so celebrate myself, I did, by testing out these tasty toys with Whitman!

This kit includes the nifty “Ignite Me” massage candle (one of the best things GV sells, if you ask me!) in ‘morning dew’ scent. This scent was a little perfume-y for my taste (I was spoiled by the herbal lavender version already), but is a light floral fragrance that most people will find appealing. The Ignite Me candle is a low-melting temperature soy wax that can be poured on your lover without burning, and then massaged in without leaving a sticky residue.
These candles ROCK!

please bunny fufuThe kit also includes a silver bullet vibrator, (with batteries included!)which is a standard scroll-wheel-controlled insertable egg, and a 2 oz. bottle of Please liquid lubricant.

The Please liquid lube is a glycerin- and paraben-free water based lubricant  with no smell and no taste, which is perfect for anyone with sensitive skin or other lube issues. We found it to be a little thick and it quickly turned sticky. We don’t have any skin-sensitivity issues, so we have no need to sacrifice slippery slickness for stickiness.

Within about 5 minutes or less of stroking each other, we were in shock at the glue-like texture of the lube! We immediately washed it off (easy cleanup with soap and water), and started over. The Please Cream lube from an earlier kit was much more to our liking, and we think, the better “Please” lubricant.bunny fufu

The REAL fun of this kit, however, is the Bunny Sleeve!  This jelly bunny fits on the egg and turns it into a great clitoral stimulator. The bunny’s head is a hard nub that transfers the vibrations with ease. This bunny could also be used on standard vibrators, or as you see here, on two fingers.

Bunny is now hard at work on my desk as a lubricant-topper until it’s playtime again!

Apr 122011

I use SwiftKey “smart keyboard” for my phone. It ‘learns’ words and phrases that I use, and offers them to me as I type — a little more reliably than regular predictive text. Sometimes. Sometimes I think it’s making jokes at my expense, or I’m a slutty drunk. Maybe both.

I started typing “Enjoy your first day of v…”
(where ‘v’ = ‘vacation’).
My phone’s #1 suggestion?


Yes, friends, enjoy your FIRST DAY OF VODKA.

I started typing ‘Get your butt…’
(intended phrase = ‘get your butt to school!’)
My phone’s first suggestion for the next word in this phrase?



Am I really that easy? Probably.

Apr 112011

Girls in boots

a Naughty Spot original

(better with sound on)

Apr 092011

As I have been developing the whole NaughtyPoint system, I realized that not only could I assign points for transgressions, but I could additionally use them as incentive to encourage SexFairy to accomplish certain goals.

A primary goal of mine, and less of hers, is to include other people in our sexual adventures. Since it’s less of a desire for her, I came up with a NaughtyPoint strategy. For the first month we don’t include another person(s) in our sex play, she gets assigned one point. If we reach the end of the second month, she will be assigned two additional points. Third month, three additional points. The math therefore could lead her to accumulate FIVE NaughtyPoints over three months from sheer lack of motivation and action.

Now being a good obedient SexFairy, she has no desire to accumulate points (unlike some sexually submissive women we know, ahem, Molly, aka digging yourself a hole).

Megan Fox Hell Yes
Yesterday, SexFairy started a flirty text with a sexy younger friend of hers. Let’s just say, by sometime after midnight, SexFairy had her “other people” Naughty Points reset back to zero for May.

The details of THAT sexual adventure, I’ll save for a second post, which I guarantee will be far hotter, with far less math, outside of M + F + F = :)

PS – if anyone would like to contribute their time and energy, and some sweat and heavy breathing, to assist SexFairy in avoiding these NaughtyPoints, please don’t hesitate to let us know. It’s for a good cause after all.


Apr 082011

Okay. It doesn’t. But made ya look!

According to a 2008 study on “Enterprise Server Information”, available HERE,  from UC San Diego, globally, the annual data consumption is estimated at 9.57 zettabytes*, or 12GB per employed person per day.

Another study from a few years back claims that 35% of all Internet downloads are pornographic. I am far sure it’s much greater for my internet connection, by the way.

Which implies that we watch, a hell of a lot of porn.  An amount that exceeds my math skills.

There are plenty of statistics out there, but my favorite place to see them all is to watch this video where a young woman quasi-strips off her clothes, revealing all (all the statistics).

click photo for videoWeb Statistics, stripped down

I so love technology.

* The basics on WhatTheFuck is a Zettabyte (if you really care).
· 1 Bit = Binary Digit
· 8 Bits = 1 Byte
· 1024 Bytes = 1 Kilobyte
· 1024 Kilobytes = 1 Megabyte
· 1024 Megabytes = 1 Gigabyte
· 1024 Gigabytes = 1 Terabyte
· 1024 Terabytes = 1 Petabyte
· 1024 Petabytes = 1 Exabyte
· 1024 Exabytes = 1 Zettabyte

Apr 072011

Whitman and I were talking last night, and I began to reminisce about our first date(s). Somehow, rapidly (but not shockingly) the conversation turned to sex. We were talking about the new Naughty Points system that he instituted, and I told him how surprised I was by it.
I also told him how glad I was that he surprised me with it. And how hot it made me.

I earned points before I even knew we had a point system! He posted here about it, and I read the rules along with the rest of the world. It was perfect that way – the Whitman Sneak Attack. I had no time to ponder, dwell, or fret over the impending system. It caused me to IMMEDIATELY snap to attention, and focus my mind on HIM/us/my wet cunt. (I DO NOW have time to ponder and fret over impending punishments, though… When? What? How much?)

This may seem out of line to some people in D/s relationships where everything is negotiated and spelled out in advance. To me, this was just another example of the perfect evolution of our relationship, and especially the evolution of the KINKY parts of our relationship. It’s like Whitman just KNOWS me…maybe better than I know my SELF (and he’s right. As usual.
I DEFINITELY need some re-training).

I’ve always had a predilection for submissive sex, but shared that with very few people.
I’ve never explored it fully. I wondered out loud to Whitman how it even came up in our relationship. We’ve always been wide open emotionally and sexually with each other. I guessed THAT’S how it came up.

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA Whitman, though, reminded me that I had started dropping hints early on, and he took it from there. (He’d grasped my hands in a certain way over dinner…I asked him about it the next day. He claimed it was innocent; I still think he knew what he was doing…even subconsciously).

It has progressed from that ‘innocent’ hand-grab, to light restraint and spanking to heavier restraint, heavier physical torment, sensory deprivation, breath play, denial (of whatever), etc., etc., etc.…
It’s like a never-ending flow of ideas and exploration.
I want it to keep going and growing. Forever.
I want to be everything to him. (We do have a very real relationship OUTSIDE of Dom/sub sex, but it is so fluid. We move from one to the other and back effortlessly.)

69_in_contemplation_lrgRight now, I want to explore further a service-oriented submission…kneeling at his feet, sucking his cock while he works, doing his bidding at mealtimes, crawling, corseted on hands and knees to bring him the belt to spank me. You know, just regular stuff. ;) I want to get to a really deep place of submission…to be able to stop battling with my ‘real world’ self about what’s okay and what’s acceptable, and just let. it. go.

I really, REALLY want to get to a place where I can FULLY appreciate his pleasure for just what it is, and focus on that… For instance, if he WANTS or NEEDS to have sex with someone else, (or wants ME to have sex with someone else, for that matter), I want to WANT THAT for him. That part might take me a while, but I’m working on it.

Apr 062011

OrgasmatronRemember in the Woody Allen movie Sleeper, the sex machine called the “Orgasmatron”? Even as a young man I thought that was the greatest futuristic invention in the movie. Even better than dessert foods as healthy.

And women have had vibrators for years. Us men have mostly had to resort to doing most of the work ourselves, when it came to masturbation. Take hand, grip penis, move up and down till orgasm. Clean up.

I have often thought about a machine, that would slide up and down automatically on a hard cock (preferably mine) and simulate a pussy, or mouth, doing the “work”.

Lately I’ve seen the Cobra.

Cobra libre

The description on EdenFantasys by a reviewer named Gary is, “This is one amazing masturbation toy that definitely changes the whole game when it comes to this kind of device. If you are looking for something new that you can really just sit back and enjoy the ride with, this is it. On the lower setting you could probably extend your sessions as long as you wanted them to be. On the high settings, the sensations are unlike anything out there for men!:”Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys store

EdenFantasys has 608 people (men I assume) rating it as 4 out of 5 stars. It must work, at least  MOSTLY!!! Maybe I can win one in the EdenCafe Contest?

Still, there is something odd about putting my cock into something that looks like a Tron race car. I always fear it’ll be like a Chinese Finger Trap and clamp down on my cock and not let go. Shudder. Shudder. Cum. Mmmmmmmm

Apr 052011

From our Tumblr site at http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/ it’s Top Tumblr Tuesday #4.

SexFairy selected this and sent me this note:
         “THIS photo that you posted in our Tumblr makes me so hot every time I see it. I’m not sure why, since I don’t really like girls that much IN THAT WAY…Maybe it’s the sparkles. ”

mmmm, sparkles

Click the photo to see it larger on our Tumblr site..

Apr 042011

I have become painfully aware that SexFairy has been faltering. She has been disagreeing with me. Questioning my decisions. Saying “no” to my suggestions. Not opening her legs or mouth as I expect. Look at our last couple posts, where I have a little fun and she “doesn’t like it”.

My drink coasterHENCE:

The time has come, or rather is overdue, for her to be retrained.

“You are expected to be obedient, subservient, and compliant.
When I feel you are violating that expectation, I will assign points,
known as Naughty Points, which will result in punishments. 
Punishments may come in the form of physical punishments
or denying you things like food, air, pleasure, including orgasms,Punishment
or humiliating you, in private or in public,
or in granting you sexually to others,
or by forcing you to watch me with others,
all, as I wish.

Points will only be reduced through punishment, at the time and place

of my choosing. Any positive actions by you will not reduce your point
count and will have no effect on the punishment level applied.”


SexFairy has accumulated four points this morning.

  • for saying she didn’t want to wear nipple jewelry in public because “it might look funny”
  • for saying my assignment of points is “no fair!”
  • for responding to an instruction with “okay” rather than “yes sir”
  • for replying to one of my suggestions by starting with the word “But….”


I will see about putting a running tab on the blog showing her point level. When punishments occur reducing her points, we will put up a post, detailing the event, because what good is punishment if everyone else can’t enjoy it too?

Now to what extent points translate into punishment, I have yet to quite determine. But I hope SexFairy learns to submit herself better. And then again, I kind of hope she doesn’t.