Oct 042012
 

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sheer lingerie beautiful nipples

Whitman and I had a little chat this morning, about lingerie, nipples, and my being bi:

   Whitman: That’s pretty lingerie on tumblr

      SexFairy: it IS.  I found it on Pinterest, but it’s  here…the lingerie is pretty OR maybe just her nipples are so pretty :)

   Whitman: that’s the kind of comment someone attracted to women would say. Her nips look awesome perky

      SexFairy: they’re just tiny and pretty. AND yes, very attractive

   Whitman: does it make you think of doing things to her?

      SexFairy: of touching and putting my mouth on her nipples. Things like that?

   Whitman: yes. exactly like that.

      SexFairy: then yes!

   Whitman: you bisexual you

When I saw this picture on Pinterest, I HAD to add it to our Tumblr. I do like the lingerie, but OMG, I was mesmerized by her breasts (or by her nipples, really). I was fascinated by the way she appears topless, but is not. That pink lace is just like a little frosting for her perfect breasts. I want to lick it off.

So, yes. I admit it DID make me think of doing things to her. I think Whitman is always trying to gauge my bisexuality, like maybe it’s too good to be true, and it might go away. Given the vision I had in my mind of sucking those little nipples right through the lace with my hands roaming the rest of her body at the same time? I don’t think my bisexual urges are going anywhere!

Sexy Little Contest – If one of you buys this for me, I will TOTALLY send you a private photo of me wearing it. Maybe even be a photo of me with my girlfriend’s nipple in my mouth! She does have lovely nipples. Best comment wins this, but you do have to buy it for me to get the private photos.

Oct 012012
 

[Part II of a two part story, continued from Part I]
where we take our girlfriend Kitten away to a theme park for the weekend…
(photos in this post are of us from that day)Top to bottom: Kitten, SexFairy, Whitman's cock

After a day in the park, we went back to the hotel, all got naked, and started drinking. On thing we love about Kitten is she is miraculously good at getting naked. We hadn’t been in the hotel room 30 seconds and she had  already stripped off everything, which, by the way, is a lovely sight.

Next thing I know SexFairy is naked too, so, being a good host, I join them. I make a few drinks and we all lounge in the bed, talking about the rides we went on and the funny looks from people seeing us three kissing and holding hands. We start kissing again. I am laying on my back and SexFairy climbs onto my erect cock, facing me. While SexFairy is riding me, Kitten gets behind her and starts stroking our asses and licking my balls while we are fucking. SexFairy turned around and started kissing Kitten while bouncing on my cock. It was a marvelous view for me. [see photo above]

Kitten, Whitman, SexFairy, and our drinksAfter SexFairy rolled off, she spent some time licking Kitten’s clit, and being the generous guy I am, I took my turn and went down on Kitten, paying special attention to licking her ass. We took a little break, caught up on our drinks [see photo above],   kissed some more, when I decided that SexFairy needed some special attention. I looked at Kitten, and said, would you like to FIST fuck SexFairy. OMG Yes. SexFairy was a bit apprehensive, but once I get to a certain stage, I stop paying attention to apprehensiveness.

Kitten fisting SexFairy, while Whitman helpsKitten and I lay SexFairy back, and I poured a generous serving of oil on SexFairy’s sweet lips and rubbed it all over Kittens hand. She started with a single finger, and then two. I showed Kitten how to squeeze her hand nice and slim, and told her to keep going. Soon it was four fingers going deep into SexFairy, all the way to Kitten’s thumb. Kitten tucked her thumb in and soon had her whole hand inside SexFairy. My one hand was rubbing SexFairy’s clit while my other held a video camera (and no you can’t see it, but it’s fucking hot as hell). SexFairy also rubbed her clit as Kittens hand was pounding deep into SexFairy’s very wet pussy. [see photo to the right]

Watching SexFairy cum over and over, so incredibly hard, on Kitten’s full fist fucking, was one of the hottest things I’ve ever been witness to. I love watching a girl cum, and SexFairy’s whole body just shivers as she cums. I swear the bed was shaking.

SexFairy spilled her drink. Whitman holds her down. Kitten fingers.Kitten and I let her recover while I gave Kitten’s ass some more kissing while she stood naked against the open window. What a view that was from both sides. SexFairy came over with her drink, and somehow spilled it all over her naked chest. Instead of letting her clean it up, I pushed her down onto the chair as Kitten and I licked the drops off her body. [see photo to the left]

We all eventually got dressed, SexFairy in a sheer black dress and Kitten all pretty in pink, a dress I bought for her earlier in the day. The girls looked so pretty and sexy, especially having one on each side of me. We went out to dinner and then spent the next few hours in a club dancing and drinking and kissing and a little dirty dancing.

Thank you SexFairy. You make me feel like a God.

Aug 032012
 

At what point can I call myself bisexual?
I’ve been over this a zillion times in my mind and on this blog:

I’ve had sex with women. I like it. I want to have sex with women, but I like men more, etc., etc.

It occurred to me that maybe I’m doing everyone a disservice by calling myself straight, especially since I’m starting to become so fascinated by the idea of more or regular sex with women. Somehow, in my mind, “bisexual” had to mean I am equally attracted to men and women. I‘m sure I fall somewhere on the Kinsey Scale that’s closer to heterosexual, but nowhere near exclusively heterosexual.  But if I think about it, I’m definitely attracted to some women. Somehow this meant to me that I’m straight – because I’m only attracted to ‘some’ women. (Well, DUHH, I’m only attracted to ‘some’ men, too!!)

Kinesy Scale, am I bi?

I’m not sure why I’ve held to this hard and fast 50/50 idea. I know and completely understand that sexual identity, attraction, and gender identity are fluid and variable and can change over time. I definitely think mine has changed. So according to the Kinsey scale, I’d give myself a 2+, because I’m definitely not 50/50, which is the definition of 3:

2 – Predominantly heterosexual experiences, but more than incidentally
      homosexual experiences
3 – Equally heterosexual and homosexual experiences

But how about THIS scale? According to bisexualindex.org.uk, “not all bisexuals are Kinsey 3’s”. This is their scale, and I think I like it the best:

1 exclusively hetero
2 bisexual
3 bisexual
4 bisexual
5 bisexual
6 exclusively gay

As you can see, I’m right there in the middle.

Aug 022012
 

I’m consistently amazed by how many forms love, sex, and lust can take on. Sex is not just intercourse, obviously, but maybe it’s two people not even touching. I’m talking about mutual masturbation. It can be just as hot, just as arousing, just as sexy as fucking.
(Or maybe it’s called “taking-turns masturbation.” Seriously, what’s the term for this? Serial masturbation?)

Whitman and I were lying in bed, chatting about nothing and everything and sexy stuff in between.  (I’m starting to notice that lots of my stories start this way, but I digress…) We weren’t holding cocktails, as we often are, but we were holding cock. Whitman’s cock, to be specific. Not at first, though. We were just having a varied and wide-ranging conversation, bouncing from here to there and back to here again.

Male masturbationWe were talking about his upcoming business trip and how lonely I’d be, and how nice it would be for me to have company at night while he’s gone. We watched a video online of a cock being teased mercilessly by a sexy lady. I was also telling him about some of my suddenly-bubbling-over bisexual desires… things like placing my mouth to tits, lips to lips, tongue to ass.

As we talked, I lightly stroked Whitman’s cock, which had grown rock-hard. I used my fingers to swirl the pre-cum all around the head. We kept talking casually, and then suddenly he grabbed his own erection, taking it from my hand. It was like an uncontrollable urge. He stroked and stroked, as I lightly brushed his balls with my fingers. He came in an instant, it seemed. Semen was everywhere, coating his cock and his hand. I hopped up to get him a warm washcloth.

Female MasturbationThat’s when I felt the wetness that had escaped my folds and seeped down to my inner thighs. I hadn’t moved or touched myself while I watched Whitman. Just from watching him and whispering dirty words to him I was swollen and dripping wet. I stopped in my tracks and returned to the bed. It was my turn to have an uncontrollable urge to touch myself, and my turn to cum.

Jul 302012
 

I’m thinking more and more about women in a sexual way lately. I certainly love looking at pictures of naked beautiful bodies, and that’s not new. I don’t think of myself as bisexual…just ‘open-minded’ and in love with sex. That attitude has led to encounters with men, women, whomever. So, I have had sex with women, and I’ve liked it. Does that make me bisexual?Historically, I’ve mostly been the recipient of the attention, but I’ve certainly passed out some licks and nibbles myself. I’ve never considered myself an expert at pussy (even though I have one), but I love to be good at what I do. Maybe that’s why I think I’m “not so bi” – unfamiliarity? Fear?

sexy girl kisses

So now all of a sudden I keep thinking about looking at, petting, tasting, worshipping a pussy??
I want to feast on tits??
I want to kneel in front of a woman like I would in front of Whitman, but instead of a probing cock, find a warm welcoming wet spot??

What’s going on here?? I think Whitman has performed a great feat of psychological conditioning over the past few months. Allow me to explain:

Whitman turns on some sexy, arty, hot girl-on-girl or threesome porn, then instructs me to lie back and watch. He then plays with my pussy, licking, teasing, touching, toying…all the while making sure that I’m still watching. If I start to look away in a moment of ecstasy or close my eyes to enjoy what he’s doing, I get a little reminder slap.

threesome doggie kisses

He says naughty things to me, like “Watch the girls playing with each other. That’s what good girls do.”  We all know I have a raging desire to be a “good girl” for him.  Hearing this, feeling good, watching the girls…well, let’s just say the words have had an amazing long-term effect. I’m dreaming of pussy again. I hope I can figure out what to do with it, and soon.

Mar 032011
 

I saw this post on Vanilla Edge, which was inspired by a big discussion surrounding this photo on Reddit about gender identity and sexuality. According to Vanilla Edge, most of the respondents to the Reddit question  were straight males, and most picked “B”. I’m not surprised. I’m a girl. I like guys, and I’m pretty into tattoos, but I don’t find Buck attractive. I chose “B” also.

This question also inspired quite a discussion here at the Naughty Spot, as well. I sent the link to Whitman, who, as I suspected he would, answered “B” like the majority of straight guys.

I asked him, “So, does that make you bisexual?” His answer, “No. I like women.” He then proceeded to tell me how hot the ‘chick with a dick’ was, and even sent me a link to an image search of many VERY HOT pictures of her. I pressed onward. “But that’s a MAN. A ‘dude with boobs,’ call it what it is.”
I insisted that if he would fuck a man in the ass or let a man fuck him in the ass, that he MUST BE BI. “In my mind that’s a hot woman with an extra part,” he explained. I don’t REALLY think he is bisexual and don’t care either way, but the discussion was GREAT! It made the afternoon at work bearable.
(Note: I understand and appreciate all the nuances of sexuality, gender identity and fluidity, but was going with straight-up BIOLOGY for the discussion at hand. Everyone calm down.)

Whitman then posed a question back to me: “Who would you rather see me fucking?” I glanced quickly at the photos. Well that was without question the ‘chick with a dick’ and I told him so –Then Whitman said, “So, we’d share. Good.”  I suddenly had the realization that I was getting REALLY. TURNED. ON.

Then I looked at the picture again. Closely. That guy/girl has a REALLY. NICE. DICK.
THEN I remembered this was a ‘pre-operative’ transsexual. “Pre-OPERATIVE” being the key word.
I thought, “Ohmygod, is s/he going to REMOVE / REPLACE / INVERT that really gorgeous cock?! WHAT A WASTE!!!”