It Makes Me Think of Doing Things to Her

 Fairy Dust  No Responses »
Oct 042012
 

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Whitman and I had a little chat this morning, about lingerie, nipples, and my being bi:

   Whitman: That’s pretty lingerie on tumblr

      SexFairy: it IS.  I found it on Pinterest, but it’s  here…the lingerie is pretty OR maybe just her nipples are so pretty :)

   Whitman: that’s the kind of comment someone attracted to women would say. Her nips look awesome perky

      SexFairy: they’re just tiny and pretty. AND yes, very attractive

   Whitman: does it make you think of doing things to her?

      SexFairy: of touching and putting my mouth on her nipples. Things like that?

   Whitman: yes. exactly like that.

      SexFairy: then yes!

   Whitman: you bisexual you

When I saw this picture on Pinterest, I HAD to add it to our Tumblr. I do like the lingerie, but OMG, I was mesmerized by her breasts (or by her nipples, really). I was fascinated by the way she appears topless, but is not. That pink lace is just like a little frosting for her perfect breasts. I want to lick it off.

So, yes. I admit it DID make me think of doing things to her. I think Whitman is always trying to gauge my bisexuality, like maybe it’s too good to be true, and it might go away. Given the vision I had in my mind of sucking those little nipples right through the lace with my hands roaming the rest of her body at the same time? I don’t think my bisexual urges are going anywhere!

Sexy Little Contest – If one of you buys this for me, I will TOTALLY send you a private photo of me wearing it. Maybe even be a photo of me with my girlfriend’s nipple in my mouth! She does have lovely nipples. Best comment wins this, but you do have to buy it for me to get the private photos.

This sex toy sucks – in Three Places at Once

 Toy Reviews  No Responses »
Jun 072012
 

Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Triple Suckers I’ll have to admit that as much as I’ve learned to love sex toys, I’ve always been afraid of things that look like this:

There’s just something about the hoses and bulbs and cups that scares me. Maybe it’s the medical or industrial look. Maybe I’m just afraid of looking wacky, like a victim in a sexy sci-fi movie. When Erotic Toy Town said they were sending the Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Triple Suckers along, it was no different. I was excited, yet terrified at some level. I’m sure Whitman found the look of slight panic on my face rather amusing.

It turns out that I was afraid for no good reason. This kit comes with two round nipple suction cups and one thin oval suction cup for the clit, each with its own vibrating bullet. These are attached to a rubber squeezable bulb that when squeezed produces pretty strong suction. It has a little quick release button on the side, but Whitman more enjoyed pulling it hard until it popped off. You can see the skin being pulled all the way into the bulb.

The continuous suction provided by the nipple suction cups feels amazing. This toy creates a steady, hard pull that’s almost impossible to create with a mouth. The little bullets add vibration for extra stimulation, but honestly, I love the sucking without the vibration. This is a great toy for beginners, or people like me who might not be sure about pumps and such. It’s easy to use, and the purple color is really pretty and thereby non-threatening. Just place the cups on the appropriate body parts (nipples and clit), then start pumping the bulb until it feels good (or hurts, as is your preference). Release as needed. This toy can also be used in the tub, and would be easy to use alone, not just with a partner, although having four hands helps.

Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Triple Suckers The first time we used this, the clit sucker wouldn’t quite stay attached. I’m not sure if it’s because of my anatomy or what was happening, but we couldn’t get a good seal, and ended up suctioning that cup to my belly. (All three cups have to be attached to something to create suction.)

Our second try proved to work a little better. Whitman used more lube, massaging my clit to get it nice and engorged, and was then able to suck my clit hood up all the way up into the cup. I felt the full effect of the nipple suction and the clit suction at the same time. My clit is a very sensitive, so that was bordering on too much, but it did keep my attention focused there. The nipple suction felt incredible, and left my nipples standing tall when we removed the cups. He played with it a little and then fucked me while it sucked away. It was quite fun having so much attention all over my body.

The Fetish Fantasy Vibrating Triple Suckers  also comes with a toy cleaner, two sample lubes, and a blindfold. It is really nice to see a company go the extra mile by including these additional and oh-so-sexy items.  Thanks again to Erotic Toy Town for giving us this fun toy to try!

FYI – it doesn’t work on Whitman’s man hairy nipples, and he didn’t offer to shave his chest, so this review is most definitely one-sided.

The First Time, All Over Again

 Fairy Dust, labiaplasty, sexy sex  2 Responses »
Mar 292012
 

I mentioned last week that we finally had sex again! I’d like to elaborate on that a little bit.

I had been really wanting sex for at least two weeks. About a week after my labia reduction, even though I was still tender and swollen, I was really horny! I was also really, really nervous about fucking. I was afraid it would hurt, I was afraid Whitman would get grossed out by some post-op weirdness, I was afraid it wouldn’t be the same. Of course it wouldn’t be the same. My vagina is the same inside, but obviously my vulva is totally different now. I wondered how much those dangly lips had been in the way (or in the mix) for better or worse. In any case, we ended up waiting about three weeks.

Whitman and I were up to the usual, sipping cocktails, lounging in the bedroom, just chatting about nothing and everything. Of course the subject of sex and the stitches came up. “Let me see your stitches, baby,” Whitman said. I slid my panties off, spread my legs slightly and let him take a look, and of course, there were two or three (or five) lingering stitches. Two or three (or five) lingering, annoying, hateful stitches in between me and my man. As you may recall, I was trying to hold out until they were completely gone.

I told Whitman that I’d just read that it could be months, not weeks, for the last few to dissolve. At that point, Whitman said, ‘Do you want me to just fuck you anyway?’ Smiling, I said “yes,” rather shyly. “Okay then.” He put down his drink, grabbed the massage oil, and told me to lie back.

He removed my shirt (I was wearing his shirt, actually), and started sucking my nipples. It was electrifying. Truly. I felt like I was humming with electricity. He poured a little oil on his free hand while still massaging and nibbling at my breasts. As he rubbed the oil over my breasts, down my belly and all over my pussy, I thought I would have an orgasm right then. Whitman was gentle and very careful as he rose up, climbed between my legs and slowly slid his cock into me.

hard-orgamsI gasped, not from pain, but from the shock of being entered again after so many weeks. As Whitman slid the rest of the way in, I was amazed by the feeling of being so full, and overwhelmed by emotion. I whimpered. I wanted to cry. I didn’t cry. I DID cum. Almost instantly.
I rarely orgasm from intercourse, so it was even more overwhelming when I did this time. I ended up having two more orgasms in rapid succession. No pain, just an extraordinary feeling of being full and close to Whitman and wonderfully, orgasmically in love. Again, the urge to cry joyful tears nearly took over, but I held back…mostly because I didn’t want to scare Whitman or freak him out.

It actually did hurt when Whitman lifted my legs to his shoulders – my tender new skin was SO not ready to be stretched that way yet. He turned me around and fucked me from behind, doggy style. There was no pain at all, and he was able to fuck me very hard. I felt like he was extra-deep inside of me. It may just have been in my mind, but I felt like the barrier of my lips was gone, and we were physically closer, even if just by millimeters. There was no pushing and pulling of my pussy with each stroke. We were fucking and it was just me, open for Whitman…and Whitman balls-deep inside of me.

Bonus: post sex – there were no stitches left!

Understanding SUBMISSIVE via Nipple Piercing

 lovegasm  3 Responses »
Apr 292011
 

MFC AspenRaeI think barbell piercings on a woman’s nipples look incredibly hot. Seeing a pierced nipple is a total turn on. It can also be useful (note some of the photos on this post).

One day I will instruct SexFairy to have her nipples pierced. We both know it will hurt and have some healing time. To be fair, this is something I want. She wants it really just because I do.

Partly based on our differing feelings about having her nipples pierced,  I recently posted this question on  our Tumblr, theNaughtyspot.tumblr.com:

“Should HE make HER get her nipples pierced with barbells?”

Should HE make HER get her nipples pierced with barbells?

Two of the responses are:

“mymptp answered: “MAKE” her? Oh, please.”
“wantinghim answered: “no….some things can be twisted, pinched, bitten, slapped and pulled. But if something is going “thru” them…its HER call.”pierced nipple bondage

At first their responses bothered me. How dare they presume to tell me what I can or cannot do with my SexFairy? But then I realized, they just don’t understand.

A submissive is submissive because she wants to be. Of course she can end or change that at any time. I respect this gift she has given me, this gift of herself. As long as we are in agreement as to the definition of our relationship, where she is mine to do with as I please, I can tell her what to wear, how far to bend over, etc. She has already chosen to allow me to make these decisions, for both of us.

As the wonderful blogger Discerning Dom put it so well in his post What’s it all about?: “The question of whether she will let me do what I want has already been settled. She’s already agreed in advance. I’ve got carte blanche. Yes, of course there are limits; there are always limits. But that leaves a lot of space to work in….The real pleasure for me comes from knowing that she wants to surrender. There’s no pleasure whatsoever in spanking a girl who hates it. That’s not domination, that’s abuse.”

Anyone in a valid DOM/SUB relationship understands this.

S0, until she says otherwise, it’s MY decision, and YES I CAN MAKE HER, because she allows me to.  Until she says otherwise, which I don’t think she will do. Because she loves being my SexFairy.wrist clamps to nipple piercing

XXX Pick

 Fairy Dust  1 Response »
Mar 142011
 

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