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Enraptured

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May 212011

So, in case any of you missed the memo, the end of the world is nigh. Nigh, as in NOW. I have to admit that as a young teen, I had some experience with Pentecostal Christians, tales of The Rapture, The Bride of Christ being taken away and the rest of us ( OBVIOUSLY the cool /fun people) left behind. To me, this just means that I can now afford REALLY NICE STUFF if all the stores will be unmanned. Looting, anyone??

By the way, I’m here to say that I unequivocally call BULLSHIT on this. There. You heard it here first, kids.

All this Rapture rap got me thinking, though, about being ‘enraptured’ and what that means.

Enraptured: tr.v. en·rap·tured, en·rap·tur·ing, en·rap·tures: To fill with rapture or delight.

en·rapture·ment : n. Synonyms: enrapture, entrance², ravish, thrill, transport
These verbs mean to have a powerful, agreeable, and often overwhelming emotional effect on someone.

I know that regular readers of this blog might think that my relationship with Whitman is fraught with drama…what with all of the email-reading, Dom/sub, naughty points, extra people-fucking, etc. We sound like a couple of insecure whacked out sex-crazed kids sometimes.

But TRULY, I AM ENRAPTURED. DAILY (see definitions above). I am AMAZED daily by the love that we have. I am delighted and filled with wonderment at how this love found me, or found us. I thrill every moment that we are together and think constantly about the next time that we will be together. I CAN’T BELIEVE I’m so lucky to have this man in my life. Overwhelming. Really.

That being said, since today’s OBVIOUSLY everyone’s last day on Earth, let’s GET FUCKING, FOLKS!

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