Aug 312012
 

Whitman and I are old enough and experienced enough to consider ourselves sexually “educated”. I mean, at a certain point, you think you know everything there is to know, right? It turns out, though, we’ve had a lot to learn over the past few years.

First, we learned (and are still learning) about each other: what we like, how we’re kinked, some new turn-ons, and surprising things we didn’t even know about ourselves, much less each other. We like costumes, we like rope, we like high quality vibrators. We’re learning as we go, and it’s a continuous process!Rainbow condomsThen we started learning about different sex toy materials, what’s body-safe, what’s not. We learned that our nice silicone toys can’t be used with our favorite silicone lubricants. We now have a large collection of lubes: flavored, not flavored, silicone, water-based, and oil. They all have their place in our sexual repertoire.

Threesome - not us, but could beMost recently, we’ve added some new play partners. Neither Whitman nor I have had to buy condoms in years, but this recent development has added “safe-sex” education to our schedule. There are tons of new condom styles these days! Whitman is sampling condoms of all different sizes, shapes, and materials to find out what feels best.

Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys storeOur relationship started off hot and stays hot because we’ve always been interested exploring and learning about sex and about each other. I hope we never stop.

Aug 232012
 

Our friends at CalExotics noticed that I have been sexually opening up as I’ve increasingly begun to think of myself as bisexual. That, and having a few new girlfriends brought us this fun new sex toy. The Love Rider Dual Action Strap-On 7-function vibrating silicone dildo meant forLove Rider Dual Action Strap-On double pleasure.

This is all silicone, (including the straps) with 6” x 1.5” of large black dildo on one side, and a 2.5” x 1.5” large nubby butterfly- like pad on the other. It comes in black or pink and the vibrator needs two AAA batteries. The dildo end is too large for Whitman’s tight man ass, though he does love his prostate play. We’ve been lucky lately in having some very sexy, very fun, very open-minded new girlfriends to play with. I’ve been especially lucky watching Whitman’s face as we play with them. He is SO in heaven.

We told one of our new friends about this toy and she was more than willing to help out with testing. I was so turned on by our friend I volunteered to wear it and be the fuckER, rather than the fuckEE. I do like how having a play “penis” feels and looks on me.  The straps are the only downside to the toy. They’ll fit a 42” waist and are 3/8” wide and stretch out a bit. It was a bit of work to get it comfortable and tight enough. Once I got it on it was difficult to pull the straps tighter, and it did have some flex even then. We instead removed the straps (easy to do) and put the whole vibrating dildo into a nice leather strap on we have. Love Rider Strap-On lengthBecause it’s silicone, we used some nice water based lube and I slowly began inserting it doggy style into my friend. She quickly backed her ass into it, and off we went. The size is just large enough to be hugely fun but not so much it hurts. The nubby pad rubbed against my clit in a really nice way. I say really nice, because Whitman reached in (he’s so controlling) and turned on the vibrator.

Love Rider Strap-On widthThe vibrator is controlled by a little bullet with one on/off button and one button to cycle through the levels and LED lights to let you know where you are, all on 20 inches of cord. There are seven different levels. Slow, medium, fast, a fast pulse, escalating, triple pulse and pause, and triple pulse followed by hard pulse. The medium felt the best to me, but we sure as hell enjoyed trying them all out. We were both having too much fun to stop and switch places, so we just kept going. Eventually I could see Whitman wanted a turn at both of us so we put the Love Rider away for next time.

There will definitely be a next time. And then it’s my turn baby!

Thanks again CalExotics! Can’t way for the next one! Kisses all around.

Aug 202012
 

clip3So, suddenly everyone Whitman touches squirts like crazy. Except me. First there was Ivy, then our new friend Kitten. He made her squirt twice in a row within minutes, and she said that’s never happened. (She knew she could squirt, just not multiple times.) I was really proud of him, because, well…WOW.
Around the same time, a third friend told me she’d squirted for the first time that week. REALLY?? WHAT THE HELL??

After the second girl, I started to feel a little pouty, like I’m missing out on something. It’s also starting to sound like a bit of a challenge. Certainly I can squirt just as well as everyone else!! Right?? I can do everything!! Can’t I?! I’m the princess, I want one!!

I’m obsessing about it now. I want him to do this to me. I want to do it for him.

We tried this “project” a couple of years ago, and I came to the conclusion that I’m physically not a squirter. Everything I’ve read lately, though, says that everyone is physically capable of doing it. And apparently, Whitman’s the  PussyMaster. Did he not try hard enough on me? Did we give up too soon? I don’t think we cared at the time, but I want to try again.

We put “make SexFairy squirt” on our to-do list for the weekend, along with “install dimmer switch” and things like that. We didn’t quite get to it, even though we did have a sexy debauched weekend (more on that later).

I may suck at squirting, but like I’ve always said, some of us are better at sucking than others!

Aug 152012
 

Readers often make their way to the Naughty Spot via varied wayward search terms.

Some are funny, some are a little scary. Some are just plain ol’ ‘WTF?’ odd.

This one might qualify as all three, but is definitely the funniest I’ve seen in a LONG TIME:

“is there a way to watch lesbians in a shower without a flashdrive”

hot lesbian shower photo

Aug 132012
 

Ivy, our sexy new friendSexFairy always believed in Fairies, but not in Squirters, until the other night.

Let’s call her “Ivy”. I found her on OkCupid, and from there we went to our mutual Fetlife accounts. She’s early 30’s, polyamorous and bisexual. Ivy has beautiful face with long golden hair over a very sexy body that she knows how to move.

Ivy is also quite intelligent with a strong understanding of what she wants in her romantic and sexual relationships. She very much knows what she’s interested in, and what /who works for her and does not. More than SexFairy and I do at this point. We are certainly still evolving.

The three of us met for dinner and had some lovely chemistry going. We made plans for an upcoming Saturday night, to which I included a presumptive offer of a sleepover, just in case, well, you know.

That Saturday was just two nights ago and I feel like I just have to share:

We enjoyed a slightly decadent dinner, mixed in with a few drinks and a few kisses here and there. Apparently SexFairy got the first kiss from Ivy while I wasn’t watching. And I love watching girls kiss, but really, who doesn’t. My first kiss came soon enough, followed by more for SexFairy.

We moved into the bedroom and got naked. More kissing ensued, followed by a tangling of limbs and tongues I rather lost track of. I know both girls enjoyed each other, and I enjoyed both of them.

Sidebar: I used to be fairly bad at stimulating a woman with my hands. I was too rough, or off-center, or too deep without direction. I would rub this way, move around, rub that. Who knew. I think some girls got off, but I know others would just insist that it was time for them to do me. Hmm, in retrospect maybe that WAS a good tactic. So over the years I studied. I looked at anatomy diagrams, watched instructional videos [see links below], and started asking questions. I’d ask women what felt good. How they liked being touched. How they touched themselves. And then, to guide my hand across their body. I may not be a master of this, but I’ve definitely gotten better.

Now the three of us are naked, and touching and licking each other. I reach my hand down to Ivy’s smooth sweet pussy. It’s very wet already. I put my two middle fingers inside of her, and press my palm against her clit, and start massaging her whole pussy. In very little time she is starting to get very wet. Very wet. And I keep rubbing, harder and harder. Then I feel the juices inside her really start to flow. Not like drip wet, more like cups of liquid wet. And then she cums, and squirts. It goes far and wide. The bed is soaked. Ivy’s head is tilted back in the bed. SexFairy is mouth agape, and I’m feeling like the king of the world. I do it again, and again. I slap her soaking wet pussy making her cum juice splatter. I tell SexFairy to lick her clean, and she does.

Ivy tells us that only one guy had done that to her before, and that was years prior. I guess all my self-education did pay off.

I roll Ivy sideways so she’s lying with SexFairy and I fuck Ivy for a while. They both alternate on sucking on my cock for a while until I tell SexFairy to get doggy and go down on Ivy while I stand behind SexFairy. So here I’m standing on the edge of the bed, holding Ivy’s feet pulling her towards SexFairy, who’s licking her pussy. About to cum, I pull SexFairy to the floor and cum in her open mouth. Ivy applauds.

Ivy and SexyFairy, naked embraceAs I think back, I am fairly certain no one has ever applauded me for a sexual activity. Not in person at least. Looking back on the bed I see the two of them embraced in a most beautiful sight. This is the photo I had to take right then and there. It’s blurry and a bit hard to discern what’s what, but a flash would have ruined it. And I didn’t want anything to spoil our beautiful time.

SexFairy and I had a most wonderful time, and can’t wait to see Ivy again soon. I think Ivy could be very good for both of us, and I hope she feels the same.

POST:

Below are two squirter videos that are at least quasi-instructional in nature.
The first is a bit more porny, the second is a bit more instructional. Either way, they are fun to watch, and even more fun to practice with a special friend, or two.

This Is How To Make A Girl Squirt

Teach Your Girl How To Squirt

Aug 032012
 

At what point can I call myself bisexual?
I’ve been over this a zillion times in my mind and on this blog:

I’ve had sex with women. I like it. I want to have sex with women, but I like men more, etc., etc.

It occurred to me that maybe I’m doing everyone a disservice by calling myself straight, especially since I’m starting to become so fascinated by the idea of more or regular sex with women. Somehow, in my mind, “bisexual” had to mean I am equally attracted to men and women. I‘m sure I fall somewhere on the Kinsey Scale that’s closer to heterosexual, but nowhere near exclusively heterosexual.  But if I think about it, I’m definitely attracted to some women. Somehow this meant to me that I’m straight – because I’m only attracted to ‘some’ women. (Well, DUHH, I’m only attracted to ‘some’ men, too!!)

Kinesy Scale, am I bi?

I’m not sure why I’ve held to this hard and fast 50/50 idea. I know and completely understand that sexual identity, attraction, and gender identity are fluid and variable and can change over time. I definitely think mine has changed. So according to the Kinsey scale, I’d give myself a 2+, because I’m definitely not 50/50, which is the definition of 3:

2 – Predominantly heterosexual experiences, but more than incidentally
      homosexual experiences
3 – Equally heterosexual and homosexual experiences

But how about THIS scale? According to bisexualindex.org.uk, “not all bisexuals are Kinsey 3’s”. This is their scale, and I think I like it the best:

1 exclusively hetero
2 bisexual
3 bisexual
4 bisexual
5 bisexual
6 exclusively gay

As you can see, I’m right there in the middle.

Aug 022012
 

I’m consistently amazed by how many forms love, sex, and lust can take on. Sex is not just intercourse, obviously, but maybe it’s two people not even touching. I’m talking about mutual masturbation. It can be just as hot, just as arousing, just as sexy as fucking.
(Or maybe it’s called “taking-turns masturbation.” Seriously, what’s the term for this? Serial masturbation?)

Whitman and I were lying in bed, chatting about nothing and everything and sexy stuff in between.  (I’m starting to notice that lots of my stories start this way, but I digress…) We weren’t holding cocktails, as we often are, but we were holding cock. Whitman’s cock, to be specific. Not at first, though. We were just having a varied and wide-ranging conversation, bouncing from here to there and back to here again.

Male masturbationWe were talking about his upcoming business trip and how lonely I’d be, and how nice it would be for me to have company at night while he’s gone. We watched a video online of a cock being teased mercilessly by a sexy lady. I was also telling him about some of my suddenly-bubbling-over bisexual desires… things like placing my mouth to tits, lips to lips, tongue to ass.

As we talked, I lightly stroked Whitman’s cock, which had grown rock-hard. I used my fingers to swirl the pre-cum all around the head. We kept talking casually, and then suddenly he grabbed his own erection, taking it from my hand. It was like an uncontrollable urge. He stroked and stroked, as I lightly brushed his balls with my fingers. He came in an instant, it seemed. Semen was everywhere, coating his cock and his hand. I hopped up to get him a warm washcloth.

Female MasturbationThat’s when I felt the wetness that had escaped my folds and seeped down to my inner thighs. I hadn’t moved or touched myself while I watched Whitman. Just from watching him and whispering dirty words to him I was swollen and dripping wet. I stopped in my tracks and returned to the bed. It was my turn to have an uncontrollable urge to touch myself, and my turn to cum.

Aug 022012
 

I’m getting ready for work. Whitman is still naked in bed.
I just want to stay home and fuck all day.
Is that too much to ask?

Aug 012012
 

I recently read an article in Men’s Health magazine that ranked America’s “smuttiest cities.” They weren’t talking about air pollution and soot, either. They meant smutty in the best way possible: porn viewing habits.

The magazine used several methods to come up with this list, including rate of internet porn searches via Google, number of adult toy stores per city, and number of porn DVD’s purchased, rented, or movies streamed through certain providers. I was not surprised to read that Orlando ranked #1 on this list. Vacationing parents and conventioneers like to get a little cray-zee when tv porn topless blonde out of town, apparently.

What I did find extremely interesting, though, was a side note. Eight of the cities on the list (remember, these are big porn-watching and porn-searching communities) had their access restricted from the porn-streaming company used for the research. Apparently these 8 cities, (including Jacksonville, Florida and Cincinnati, Ohio) fall in the no-stream category. Some companies put this restriction in place to avoid “being charged with violating community standards.” Seriously?! Has anyone been to Jacksonville or Cincinnati lately? Who says those cities have standards?

Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys storeSo if you live in or are traveling to one of these cities, make sure you BYOPd (bring your own porn dvds). Or make your own, of course!