Oct 112012
 

This evening we have a friend coming over whom we haven’t seen for some time now. This friend, Maria, has been known to accost SexFairy in the women’s bathroom at bars, pull down her pants or up her skirt, and thrust her tongue across SexFairy’s clit while fingering her pussy. SexFairy likes those bathroom trips.

Shortly after I met Maria, we had a nice fivesome (three women plus me and another guy). I know my dick was in all three girls that night, as was his. Another time we met Maria at a bar, went to her place, and I got to watch Maria and SexFairy enjoy a fantastic Tribbing experience. This will be our fifth time with her, but honestly with all the girls coming in and out of our bedroom, it’s sometimes hard to keep track. Yes, I know, you feel sorry for me. Ha.

I’m hoping that once we have enough to drink I can convince the girls to take a bubble bath together. We have some sexy smelling Naughty Bubbles from Booty Parlor which are on sale now at EdenFantasys. Then they can dry each other off and put on some sexy lingerie for me. Okay, the odds that after bathing together and then rubbing each other’s bodies with towels will make anyone want to put on any clothes is pretty damn slim. Unless it’s one of THESE. Plan your St. Valentine\'s Day and save the date with EdenFantasys - the sex toys shop you can trust!

Come to think of it, SexFairy is well overdue for a nice DP (double penetration) and between my cock and Maria wearing a big dildo, it’s certainly a possibility. But that’s another story. Stay tuned my friends.

Jul 022012
 

The Bounding Bunny by California Exotics is a darling little multi-speed purse-sized vibrator. It is part of the Lia Collection of silicone mini-massagers. Although it’s not quite a “rabbit” vibrator, it does have the look of a sweet little bunny, with soft probing ears (or maybe a cute little bug with antennae). There’s no face on this high-quality silicone toy; it’s just a cute bubbly shape. Mine is blue but it is also available in pink and purple.

Lia Bounding Bunny - 5.5"The Bounding Bunny is only about 5.5” long, so it’s easy to take along. Consider yourself warned, however: there is no ‘lock’ on the power button. So far, I’ve had this turn on 3 times in my purse while out and about, at work, or in the store. My advice here is travel with the on AA battery out! The vibrations are strong and buzzy, especially for a toy of this size.

Bounding Bunny LED lightsOne single light up blue button on the very bottom of the toy controls all of the action. Push to start cycling through the speeds and patterns. The light flashes in time with the vibrations, which is an exciting bonus. (Well, it’s exciting if you’re like me, and easily amused.) Hold the button down and the toy turns off. When you start again, the pattern starts at the beginning.

Thanks to CalExotics for letting us check this buzzing bunny out.

Whitman: Last night, with SexFairy bound to herself, and after a bit of massaging, I put a nice long dildo into her pussy, and then grabbed the blue bunny and started tickling her clit with it. After a few minutes of teasing, SexFairy came three times in quick succession. Joy.

May 222012
 

IMG_7637 (Large)There are many, many fans of the Hitachi Magic Wand, or as it is usually affectionately and casually known, “the Hitachi.” Regular readers my know that I’m not one of them. The Hitachi is way too strong for me, and the intensity of the vibration can be almost painful. I never use it for personal masturbation time. It is almost only used by Whitman on me for his own entertainment, or sometimes even punishment…forced orgasms, anyone?

Enter the Wand Controller! This magic box promises to tame the wand’s vibrations so that the Hitachi can work its magic on  my  box! Thanks, Babeland!! They sent this controller to my rescue, in exchange for an honest review. I can honestly say, if you’ve ever wished for more than “high” or “low” speeds on your Hitachi, then this is the box for you!

The Wand Controller looks exactly like you’d think an electrical controller would look. It’s a little control box with a switch and a dial, attached to a heavy-duty power cord. (This cord, by the way, effectively doubles the length of your tether, adding another 6’ to the Hitachi.) It does have a little retro look to it, but never fear…it works! There is also a small metal clip on the back, so this can be attached conveniently to your bedding, nightstand, or other spot. The box/cord combo is fairly heavy, weighing at least a pound.  Be careful where you clip it.

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Operation is easy. There is a three-position switch. The center position is off, which not surprisingly, turns everything off. The right side is “multi speed OFF” which allows the Hitachi to remain on, but bypass the control box. The left side is “multi speed ON” which activates the speed dial control knob. This  all-important knob controls the speed of the Hitachi, but not the intensity. Don’t worry about losing that powerful vibe that the Magic Wand is known for. Turning the dial ramps up the speed from low to high, higher, and highest. (They are actually called ‘no-name lavender section of the dial’, ‘medium’, and ‘high’.) Again, this dial controls only the speed of the super-strong vibrations.

This tool can turn your toy into a whole new toy, or take it down a notch if need be.
Finding the magic is entirely up to you.

May 212012
 

Yayyyyy, May is Masturbation Month! (again? already?) As you may know, this annual commemorative month always gets me thinking about masturbation, and masturbation habits and patterns. Here at the naughty spot, we each have our own way of doing things. masturbation man lotion

Whitman often masturbates in the afternoon. When I started thinking about this subject, I noticed that I usually like to get myself off either as I’m falling asleep, or first thing in the morning. It’s a little funny that not only does it help me rest, it can help me wake up. Of course, a morning wake-up call doesn’t require any crazy vibrators or big throbbing rabbit toys. I like to just rub one out with my hand, no sex toys required.

Another way that we differ in this regard is that for Whitman, masturbation is an event. He takes his time and enjoys the process. Seriously, he could masturbate for an hour, I’m sure. On the other hand, I am on a mission. I rarely take the time to enjoy the build up. I’m results-driven in this area, and tend to tally up 4 or 5 orgasms in just a couple of minutes. Then I go on about my business, whether that business is sleeping or waking.

Apr 062012
 
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I’ve said before, women have it made when it comes to sex toys. The variety of vibrators, dildos, bullets goes on and on and on. I took a look at the California Exotics web site, and did a quick very scientific study of the sex toys available. They have 1,406 toys for women. Men? Only 719. Of which, 250 are rings which are really more for her pleasure, or to help keep your cock hard, again, for her. Hence, in my quasi roundabout sexual math statistical analysis, women have a 3 to 1 SEX-TOY-ADVANTAGE.

So, imagine how happy I was to get a surprise toy in the mail from CalExotics, that was just for Travel Gripper BJ & ASS Masturbatorme! The Travel Gripper B.J. & Ass Stroker. SexFairy and I opened this together and upon touching it I started to get hard. Seriously. This is 5.5 inches of very soft, almost realistic feeling PureSkin, a blend of PVC and silicone. If I had a full sex doll made out of this, well, I’d, well, you know. I would, too. It smelled a little funny out of the package, but a little washing helped a bit.

SexFairy was admittedly jealous that she didn’t have her own cock to put inside this. It felt that good. This particular one has one end that vaguely resembles a mouth, and the other that vaguely resembles an asshole. But in practice, there is no difference between the two ends [real imagewomen would argue otherwise].

That night SexFairy and I had a nice fuck (sans toys) of which in part was motivated by how turned on we both got seeing and touching the Gripper.

The next day, I pulled up some sexy naked women on the computer, lubed up my cock, dripped some into the gripper, and went to work. [Reviewing sex toys is such HARD work.] The first moment was a bit off. The Gripper is heavy on both ends and fairly flexible. As I was stroking it, holding my hand around the middle, the top would somewhat flap as I pulled it up high. Eventually I changed my hand position so that my index finger went inside the top hole. This was now perfect. My hand kept the top from flapping AND on each down stroke the tip of my finger pushed against the top of my cock. I enjoyed about a full hour of masturbation with this Travel Gripper BJ & ASS Masturbatortoy, and came seriously hard.

Looking at it afterward, I realized I had started to tear the hole a bit. I’m not sure if this will get worse, or stay about where it is pictured here. Given how other similar toys take my cock, I imagine it won’t get much worse and will be a favorite for a long time to cum, come, cum.

As to “travel”? Well it is certainly small enough that it would fit in a bag without displacing anything important, like underwear. That being said I won’t be putting into my carry on luggage. Just not something I want to discuss with TSA in front of a crowd. Now for my next driving trip….hell yes, this will be cumming along, as will I.

There are a couple varieties of this product, but it’s just color (pink or light purple) and different ends, which as I mentioned doesn’t really matter.

Thanks to California Exotics, who provided us this toy at no cost  in exchange for an honest review.

Mar 172012
 

Our regular readers know that Whitman enjoys putting SexFairy into positions she cannot escape from. It’s not that she’ll move if instructed not to, but knowing she couldn’t even if she wanted to is so much more fun. [Is it? Sure.] Fortunately our friends over at Babeland offered us something new to try, as we were just hanging around anyway. They sent us some Door Jam Cuffs (a Whitman request, of course). The photo is one of the hotter sex toy photos we’ve seen in a while. Sportsheets also has a fun little video, if you are into that sort of thing.

Door Jam Cuffs sexy photoThe Door Jam Cuffs set is a pair of restraints, each consisting of a Sportsheets fleece padded velcro cuff, permanently attached, via a sewn-in metal ring, to about 8” of nylon strap that wraps around  a 4” long plastic tube with rubber ends (to protect your doors).  The 2”wide fleece cuffs are a little over nine inches long, with an additional five inches or so of velcro. These cuffs could easily accommodate wrists or ankles up to about 12” in diameter, assuming a 1”+/-  overlap.

To us, the beauty of this product is it allows you to secure your lover almost anywhere there is a door. (Though outside the house on a snowy day may be pushing it.) Just throw the tube end over the top of the open door, close the door, put her wrists into the straps, and have your way.

A few usage notes I didn’t think of until we actually started trying them:

  • On an 80” high door, your wrists need to reach up to about 71”, so it’s not for the shorter among us.
  • If you expect the cuffed partner to be pulling on them hard, you really want to have the cuffs on the side of the door that you push open. It works the other way but it could stress out the door and possibly bust something, and not in a good way. Note most bedroom doors open into the bedroom, so your play will be on the outside of the bedroom. Same with bathroom doors. Just something to think about.
  • It will work equally well on the side of the door but not necessarily so on the floor. We have carpet with a bit of gap and the tubes just slide on through the bottom. If your door has a 3/4” gap or greater, this option won’t work for you.
  • The plastic tube can be removed from the straps to be used with other bondage items, or for washing.
  • These can be combined with other bondage equipment, like other straps, cuffs, and clips for use between two doors.

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I’ve tied SexFairy to door frames before but it took a bit more ingenuity and therefore time, which I hate to waste, especially when her ass is sitting there just waiting for me to abuse it.

Bla Bla Disclaimers: So yes, this is a free product review, but hell, we love just about anything having to do with sex. And pending the final week or so of SexFairy’s Labiaplasty recovery, we haven’t put the thing to a serious test, outside of trying it enough to know she’s there, at least till I open the door.

Feb 082012
 

Valentine’s Day is nearly upon us. To me, this is one of the easiest holidays ever. There are so many sweetly cheesy and romantic ways to show my love for Whitman. Candy, photos, sex toys, lingerie…

Speaking of presents, EdenFantasys is having a really sexy and exciting promotion right now, and it makes shopping super-easy (and even MORE addictive)! It’s a Valentine’s Day countdown calendar with a new special, free gift, or sale each day leading up to the holiday! So far there have been one-day sales on massage oils and candles, men’s self-love toys, and my favorite, the “free panty with any lingerie purchase” special. Every day a new special is revealed. It’s like opening a present from EdenFantasys every day!

Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys storeSpeaking of unwrapping presents, EdenFantasys has a huge new selection of lingerie, including bra and panty sets. I love to wrap myself up like a present for Whitman to unwrap, spank, and then fuck. They’ve also got some great new sexy and romantic bath and body products. Time to get shopping, ladies (and gents)!!

Jan 092012
 

These nipple clamps are very sexy, but not always the easiest to use. If you like the look of clover clamps, but are a little leery of taking that big step, give the Bound to Please Nipple Clamps from Good Vibrations a try. These 1” x 2” metal clamps, available in chrome plated silver or black powder coat, are modeled on Victorian-era surgical clamps in a mandible style. The tension is adjusted by a screw at the base of the clamp, much like other pincer-style clamps. The two screws are attached by an 18” chain that can be tugged for added sensation, or that adds weight to the clamps just by being there. The chain is removable – it unscrews from the clamps near the adjustment screws. The packaging is a small clear plastic box with a sexy girl having her TONGUE clamped.
(I wouldn’t recommend that as a use for these clamps. OW!)

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Whitman used these on me not too long ago, and I must say the pain is exquisite. The actual clamps are very small rubber-coated pincers. I did think they might be too small to be effective. I was wrong. Whitman felt like they were a little difficult to get adjusted at first, but once they were on, they stayed on. My little nipples were held at attention while he flogged them until I almost cried. The pressure from the tiny clamps became more and more intense until finally Whitman pulled them off one at a time…pop! pop! I didn’t know whether I should cry from relief, or from the pain that then flooded my nipples once again now that they were free! Overall, I would say these clamps serve their purpose and are great intermediate-level clamps for anyone interested in ramping up their nipple play a little bit.

Thanks to Good Vibrations for letting us give these a try in exchange for an honest review!!

Jan 042012
 

This is the final part of a three part story.
Part One – Naughty Attention – “New Toys”
Part Two – Naughty Attention – “Slut Fail”

…I firmly grabbed her by the corset and pulled her from the floor and pushed her into the bedroom and onto the bed.

[Now did I mention how the bedroom was set up? I had our bag of sex toys out and open. It’s a large gym bag by the way. (Used to be  a small box, but we’ve had to dramatically increase our storage capacity over the years!) On the bed was our “Web Restraint System”. This is one of our favorite sex tools (rather than toy). I wrote a post called Bondage Sexy Toy Fiesta back when we got it about really trying it out, along with some other fun new toys. ]

imageGrabbing the restraints, I bound SexFairy’s ankles and wrists to the web so she was spread eagle on her back, completely exposed. I picked up our triple orange vibrator, covered it generously with lube, and pushed it deep into her pussy. She shivered with a complete “oh my god” face. I grabbed some bondage tape and wrapped it around the vibrator and then up around her waist so the tape held it in place. Being sure it wouldn’t fall out, I then turned it on. First low, then higher and faster. Now had I left her like this, that might have been just regular pleasure. But recall this was punishment for her letting her teeth touch my cock. Of course I’d already flogged her so more of that wouldn’t be enough. Nope. It was time for the Hitachi. Forced OrgasmI plugged the Hitachi in and held it tight over her clit, even though the one nub of the Triple Orange Vibrator was buzzing away. And with that, SexFairy started cumming. Over and over. Now you should know that she has different types of orgasms. The ones she loves are built up over time, and bring her into wave upon wave of flowing pulsing body shuddering pleasure. The Hitachi, on the other hand, is like being slapped in the face when you left a crumb on your cheek. It forces her to cum, hard, and constantly. She can’t stop. She wants it to end, but I don’t let it. And she keeps cumming. She lost count, or rather her ability to count, though later estimated it was over a dozen orgasms.

I finally lifted the Hitachi and ripped the bondage tape enough to remove the Triple Orange. Leaving her tied to the bed I fucked her, hard and fast, like an animal. It was exquisite. After a nice while I moved around to the edge of the bed where her head was hanging off and stroked my cock till I came on her face. Beautiful.

I almost can’t wait till she bites my cock the next time.

Oct 172011
 

I was talking with Whitman the other day, and (not) shockingly, the conversation turned to sex. It turned to dirty, naughty, what-he-wants-to-do-next sex. He wants to get back to basics. Basic BDSM, that is. I want what he wants. Of course.

“It seems we need some new items,” he said. I agreed. I already know he wants new nipple clamps, but he continued with his shopping list. “We need a cane, and a flogger, and a paddle of some sort.” Most of my spankings have been administered by Whitman’s hands or belt. I love both. “Whoa!” I thought as my panties were instantly soaked at the thought of him wielding a cane. Or a flogger. Or a paddle. Or all of the above.

The sound of Whitman’s voice had changed in a way that I know so well. I instantly knew this was not idle talk or fantasy chat. I WILL be subjected to a serious spanking, among other submissive delights. I can’t wait. Any submissive will tell you that a good submissive session (mental or physical) is a great release. I need it. He needs it.

So. This conversation. Let’s recap: We started talking, Whitman’s voice changed, my panties were wet, and I knew it was time to head on over to EdenFantasys and get shopping!

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