From our Tumblr site at http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/, it’s Top Tumblr Tuesday #8.

This weeks top tumblr is a sex position known as the RUSTY TROMBONE.

Rusty trombone is a euphemism for a sexual act in which a man stands with his knees and back slightly bent, with feet at least shoulder width apart in order to expose the anus.[1] The other partner typically kneels behind the man and performs analingus while reaching up beneath the testicles or around the body to manually administer rapid up and down motions of the penis, mimicking the motions of a trombone player.[1][2]

Rusty Trombone

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Come to think of it, I haven’t received my rusty trombone yet. Ahem. Is my SexFairy reading this? She better be. I’ll report on the results soon.

And on a funny note, apparently in some couples, one partner’s understanding of what a “rusty trombone” is, is different than the others!

Husband wants a rusty trombone for his birthday

She needs to read up on sexual terms or metallurgy, as of course, trombones are made of brass, which does not rust.

 

As promised, I’m here with an update on my lubricant research/trials. I was really happy to receive this Sliquid Sea for review from Good Vibrations because it’s just a little bit different. Besides being glycerin- and paraben-free, it’s also infused with three different seaweed extracts! Yes! Seaweed! Three of them! In addition to boosting the slipperiness of the Sliquid, the seaweeds are intended as a healthful bonus (as if having hot sex isn’t a health bonus enough!).
From Sliquid.com:

  • Each extract provides an added boost for your health: Carrageenan, while also being one of natures most effective natural lubricants, has also been shown to reduce the transmission of HPV (Human Papillomavirus). Wakame is a seaweed that contains B vitamins, and reduces inflammation and improves elasticity in your skin. Nori is an algae that prevents oxidation of the skin and is a very effective natural moisturizer. Together, these natural extracts of the sea blend with our Naturals H2O lubricant, to provide a slippery, sensual lubricant with the natural healing properties of the sea.

Those are some pretty serious claims! While I can’t vouch for the virus-transmission-reduction properties, nor the inflammation-reduction claim, I CAN say that I found Sliquid Sea to be VERY moisturizing. As a matter of fact, I kept rubbing it into my hands for the moisturizing effect after the sex test was over!

In our experience, water-based lubricants vary widely in how sticky and how quickly they disappear.This water-based lubricant is definitely NOT sticky (a major plus)! It DOES, however, seem to be absorbed pretty quickly, so we used a LOT of it for this test. We’ve used it for cunt-rubbing, cock-stroking, pussy and ass-fucking, all with great results. Sliquid Sea has no real smell, and no taste. I can definitely see us using this again. And again. And again.
(ALTHOUGH…next on my to-lube list is some silicone lube!)

Sliquid is featured at Goodvibes.com as part of their ecorotic line of natural and organic sex products that are good for you and have a low environmental impact.

 

Sex Fairy here, reporting in on a minor sexual accident over the weekend:

During some particularly vigorous deep-throat cocksucking (somewhat inspired by reading some sexy cock-choking blog entries and comments last week), I pulled my head back to…
I don’t know…swallow saliva? Breathe? Lick my lips? I really do know better.

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It matters not WHAT I was doing, because at that point, Whitman grabbed my head by a handful of hair and forced his cock up and my head down at the same time. Except instead of me expertly wrapping my tongue around the underside of his cock, his cock rammed the underside of my tongue.

Oops.

This was only momentarily painful, and even then only slightly so. I could tell something was not quite right, though. After finishing up with the sucking, fucking, spanking, and cum, I checked the mirror. WHOA. As I suspected, something was not quite right.

Even though it’s only slightly sore, there was, and still is, a giant bruise under my tongue. Looks like I got away without tearing the frenulum, but because this is in my mouth, the bruise looks like a giant blood blister. It actually resembles raw meat under my tongue. I’m still chuckling about this, two days later.

Lesson learned here? Keep my tongue where it belongs at all times!!   ;)

 

MFC AspenRaeI think barbell piercings on a woman’s nipples look incredibly hot. Seeing a pierced nipple is a total turn on. It can also be useful (note some of the photos on this post).

One day I will instruct SexFairy to have her nipples pierced. We both know it will hurt and have some healing time. To be fair, this is something I want. She wants it really just because I do.

Partly based on our differing feelings about having her nipples pierced,  I recently posted this question on  our Tumblr, theNaughtyspot.tumblr.com:

“Should HE make HER get her nipples pierced with barbells?”

Should HE make HER get her nipples pierced with barbells?

Two of the responses are:

mymptp answered: “MAKE” her? Oh, please.”
wantinghim answered: “no….some things can be twisted, pinched, bitten, slapped and pulled. But if something is going “thru” them…its HER call.”pierced nipple bondage

At first their responses bothered me. How dare they presume to tell me what I can or cannot do with my SexFairy? But then I realized, they just don’t understand.

A submissive is submissive because she wants to be. Of course she can end or change that at any time. I respect this gift she has given me, this gift of herself. As long as we are in agreement as to the definition of our relationship, where she is mine to do with as I please, I can tell her what to wear, how far to bend over, etc. She has already chosen to allow me to make these decisions, for both of us.

As the wonderful blogger Discerning Dom put it so well in his post What’s it all about?: “The question of whether she will let me do what I want has already been settled. She’s already agreed in advance. I’ve got carte blanche. Yes, of course there are limits; there are always limits. But that leaves a lot of space to work in….The real pleasure for me comes from knowing that she wants to surrender. There’s no pleasure whatsoever in spanking a girl who hates it. That’s not domination, that’s abuse.”

Anyone in a valid DOM/SUB relationship understands this.

S0, until she says otherwise, it’s MY decision, and YES I CAN MAKE HER, because she allows me to.  Until she says otherwise, which I don’t think she will do. Because she loves being my SexFairy.wrist clamps to nipple piercing

 

counting days. or naughty points?As I’ve mentioned before, Whitman and I are working against distance and time apart in our relationship. We’ve had what I consider to be QUITE A BIT of time apart lately, and I miss him terribly. I was actually in a bit of a snit when he left last time, and have been only marginally better in between. (I actually told him ‘maybe you should stay home then.’)
<GASP!> (um…yes, naughty point added.)

I am contrite / We made up.

He let me know on Monday that he would see me Thursday night, (even though we both have Wednesday and Thursday off). I MENTIONED (again) that I was available Wednesday, too. He said he’d see me Thursday.  I’ve been so disappointed.  I was feeling so desperate to see him. I wanted to SHOW him how much I miss him when he’s gone, how much I need him near me always. I was starting to feel so needy, and the desire to just fall to the floor when I see him and latch on to his legs with both arms…like a toddler having a breakdown…was looming large.

TODAY he let me know he could be here today.

SexFairy: omgahhhhhh I’m so fucking glad you’re coming here!!!! I didn’t want to ask again. :)
Whitman: I always was. You just need to learn some submissive desperation.

HOW DID HE KNOW??!!

 

From our Tumblr site at http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/, it’s Top Tumblr Tuesday #7.

After our MFF party the other weekend, written about HERE, I’ve been thinking more and more about putting SexFairy to use. And by “use” I mean for her to be a fuck toy for whomever wants to use her, however they want to. She’s mine to keep, or share. The thought of seeing her in the middle of a room, naked, and ready for the next in line, is very hot.

Any takers?Fuck Party tumblr

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ladies-slippery-when-wetNo, this is not about getting your car’s oil changed. It’s about lubricants of another sort. I’ve been thinking of sexy lubricants  quite a bit lately. I was always one of those “Who, me…lube? I don’t need it!” girls. I would be insulted at the idea…sort of like a guy saying “I don’t need Viagra!” I mean, my pussy is overflowing with sweet juices! Are you saying I’m not wet enough?!

I  found out, though, like a lot of guys…Viagra can be FUN whether you NEED it or not. It increases the strength and duration of a perfectly good erection. What’s wrong with THAT? In that same manner, a little bit of lube can FEEL REALLY GOOD, whether I need it or not. It’s obviously necessary for anal sex, and helpful for masturbating (his OR hers), but sometimes, it just feels good. That’s it. It increases the juiciness and slipperiness of a perfectly good wet hole. It feeeeels sooooo gooooood to dribble the cool liquid along my pussy lips, then rub it in with my fingers (or his). It feels amazing in my hand as I start to stroke Whitman’s cock. I’m guessing it increases the amazingness of my hand ON his cock for him.

Lots of reading and research at Eden Fantasys later, I’ve come to the conclusion that even Sex toys - EdenFantasys adult toys storethough silicone lubricants feel TOTALLY AMAZING, they’re not the best for every situation. Water-based lubes seem to be the most useful all-around fun juice. Whitman and I have tried a few brands lately (for research purposes, of course!), and they vary WIDELY in viscosity, stickiness, and how long they last. So far, System JO H20 from EdenFantasys has been my favorite. It was lots of fun! It was very slick with a silicone “feel” and lasted a long while and was totally non-sticky. It’s also in a CUTE package! :)

My research into this new realm of slippery fun will continue, and I’ll definitely report in often as I work to become a (self-proclaimed) LUBE EXPERT!!

 

SexFairy asked me what I want in this recent post.

She deserves an answer:

Blonde Brunette RedheadI want blonde.
I want brunette.
I want redhead.
I want white, black, asian, latino.
I want shaved, landing strip, hairy.
I want one, two, three.
I want to be gentle. I want to be rough.
I want to keep you pure. I want to make you dirty.
I want to respect you. I want to humiliate you.
I want to own you. I want to share you.
I want to be only yours. I want you to taste her on my cock.
I want us to be always honest about what we want, to want it all, and spend the rest of our lives together going after the world.

 

SexFairy had messaged an outgoing and sexy young female friend of hers, Maria, asking if she was available for the coming weekend. We met her at a bar in the middle of nowhere, shared a the real Mariafew drinks, and then went back to Maria’s place. After a bit of casual chatting, the three of us are lounging on Maria’s bed when Maria asks me to read some porn off her phone.

I put on my sexiest voice, and started reading the story. As soon as I start, Maria grabs SexFairy, flips her onto her back, pulls up her dress and immediately dives into licking SexFairy’s pussy. I keep reading. The moans right next to me are getting louder as the girls are getting more naked. Soon enough, I can’t read anymore.

I stand up and take off my clothes. With Sex Fairy on her back with her head off the edge of the bed, I hold her legs up high and tight watching Maria licking and sucking away on SexFairy’s pussy. I lean over SexFairy and join Maria licking SexFairy’s wet pussy. Our tongues intertwine as we pleasure each other.

I then get up, and as I do, Maria wraps her legs around SexFairy’s scissor style, pulls her in, and they start Tribbing. Now for those few out there, who don’t know, Tribbing, or Tribadism, is when two women rub their pussies together, usually with their legs intertwined like scissors.  Maria was in the dominant position grinding her shaved pussy into SexFairy’s. Lesbian Tribbing videoIf you have never watched two girls doing this in front of you, then I feel very sorry for you. It was amazing. I just stood there, erection in hand, watching them rub away. They were tribbing for a good five minutes. Incredible.

Click on the photo to the right to see the video, which was fairly close to what I watched in person.                                 VIDEO >>>>>>>>>>>

Maria hopped off SexFairy leaving her still on her back with her pussy massaged pussy open and ready for me. I get on top and start fucking away. As I do, Maria from behind us, sticks a finger in both of our asses. Maria does like fingering ass, and never having had that done while fucking, was an extra treat.

more TribbingWe flip SexFairy around and back Maria goes to licking her pussy. Well seeing Maria’s lovely naked ass upright I could help but take her from behind. So I am now fucking Maria, while Maria is licking Sex Fairy.

Keeping up?

Maria moves to lies down on her back and instructs SexFairy to sit on her face. Of course SF does, being obedient in all sexual situations. So now I see Maria’s bare pussy and start sliding my tongue up and down her, while she’s doing the same to SexFairy. My cock is so rock hard I need to put it somewhere so I straddle Maria’s tits, sliding  up behind SexFairy, who is still sitting  upright on Maria’s face. I slide my cock into SexFairy’s pussy, while Maria licks the front. The oddness of this position causes my cock to slip out and it’s soon in Maria’s mouth, under SexFairy’s soaking pussy. And my ass is sliding across Maria’s ample tits.

We all collapse in eager smiles. I can’t wait to do it again. Soon.

 

When Whitman and I go out to dinner, he never orders the same thing twice. (Okay, maybe ‘rarely’ not ‘never’). He’s always looking for a challenge, an adventure, something new. He loves to try new things, to learn new things, to meet new people.

I realized very early in our relationship that the only way I’d be able to keep his attention (no matter HOW MUCH in love we are) is to continually challenge him, evolve, shake things up a little every now and then.

You know, switch from thongs to boy shorts.

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When I met him I was a blonde. Now I’m a brunette. I like it.I’ve changed from my ‘standard’ nail polish color to a veritable rainbow over time. I like this, too.
Back then I had (some) pubic hair, then I went Brazilian for a while, now I have a landing strip.
I like that, as well.

I wonder what else is on the menu?

 

“How do you feel?” he asked.

“Naked,” I replied.

“Naked is what you are, not how you feel,” he responded after a slight pause.

“No. I feel naked,” I insisted. “And vulnerable. A little embarrassed. Slightly humiliated.” This seemed to satisfy him.
“I also feel like your little naked pet.” THAT made him extremely happy, even though he only smiled slightly, his eyes never leaving the road.

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Whitman and I were visiting friends over the weekend, and as we traveled a four-lane highway through small town after small town, he looked at me and said, “Take off your pants.” I was a little shocked, because this wasn’t a particularly “Dom/sub” moment. I did as I was told, though.  Not that big of a deal, right? No pants. I’m in the car, who can see? We drove on for miles, chatting normally for about 15 minutes.

“Take off your panties.” I squirmed in my seat. “Really?” I thought, but did as I was instructed without saying a word. NOW I was feeling a little more uncomfortable. I mean, really…truck drivers could see in the window as we passed them on the road.

Another fifteen minutes or so had passed. “Take off your top.” Now clad only in my bra, I tried to keep up a semblance of normal communication, like this wasn’t KILLING ME to sit naked in a car hurtling down the highway. Whitman had warned me that the punishment for one of my Naughty Points would be hard for me. I had no idea how hard. I kept thinking to myself, “PLEASE let this be it. SURELY he won’t have me COMPLETELY NAKED.” Surely he WOULD.

Obviously.
What was I thinking?

Finally completely naked fifteen minutes or so later, I could no longer carry on conversation normally. Whitman gazed at me with a satisfied look. “Now masturbate.” I noticed the wetness between my legs (way back somewhere between removing panties and bra). I had been holding my legs tightly together since I was naked, and my thighs were wet already. My breath caught as I slipped my two fingers between them. I was shocked at HOW WET I was already.

I began to masturbate slowly, and leaned my head back against the seat, never taking my eyes from Whitman. I COULDN’T take my eyes from him. After passing through a few more tiny towns, he slapped my inner thigh. HARD, and said, “You can cum. I recommend it, actually.”
Within seconds, I was on the edge, straining my hips against the seatbelt that held me close to the leather seat. THAT made me even. wetter.
I came.
I didn’t care who saw.
It was for him.

Afterward, when I was dressed again, I just wanted to curl up next to Whitman with my head on his shoulder. Lesson learned. Really. Now, just 7 more points to go…

 

From our Tumblr site at http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/ it’s Top Tumblr Tuesday #6.

Last weekend SexFairy was given the first of her punishments. We are still waiting for her to complete her description of the event and post it here, hopefully tomorrow. In the meantime, as a hint of what’s to come, we bring your our TTT #6.

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conversation following a recent FMF NaughtySpot adventure:

Whitman: “Your pussy feels much better than hers, by the way.”

Sex Fairy: “Really? Awww, thanks! But hers is so much cuter – it’s all tucked in.
Mine’s so crazy with my labia hanging out!”

Whitman: “Yes, but with yours you know exactly what you’re getting.”

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From our Tumblr site at http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/ it’s Top Tumblr Tuesday #5.

We have had a very interesting past few days. That combined with a huge amount of sexy tumblrs to choose from has made this weeks choice quite a challenge. In the end I narrowed the list down to a baker’s dozen and SexFairy selected seven, and I got down to two. So it’s a double TTT today.
Top Tumblr Tuesday #5aTop Tumblr Tuesday #5b
The first one is more Whitman’s. It makes me think of the punishments SexFairy is still slated to receive. I so can’t wait. The second one is from the tumblr of the female half of some new friends of ours. You can see her tumblr at:  http://ceekaybeautiful.tumblr.com/

Click each photo to see it larger on our Tumblr site..

Finally, I thought it would be appropriate to share the “runner ups”, in no particular order.

Enjoy:
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4403564939
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4406365437
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4417754464
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4419024132
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4417345505
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4441384904
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4443993817
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4457698535
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4417345505 
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4394111264
http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4418330364 – also from ceekaybeautiful.

Of course, what tumblr site is complete without a pussy. Yes, I mean the really cute kitten kind. http://thenaughtyspot.tumblr.com/post/4476095630

 

One of the things I love about Good Vibrations is their selection of sexy kits. They were nice enough to send us their “Celebrate Yourself” kit to review, so celebrate myself, I did, by testing out these tasty toys with Whitman!

This kit includes the nifty “Ignite Me” massage candle (one of the best things GV sells, if you ask me!) in ‘morning dew’ scent. This scent was a little perfume-y for my taste (I was spoiled by the herbal lavender version already), but is a light floral fragrance that most people will find appealing. The Ignite Me candle is a low-melting temperature soy wax that can be poured on your lover without burning, and then massaged in without leaving a sticky residue.
These candles ROCK!

please bunny fufuThe kit also includes a silver bullet vibrator, (with batteries included!)which is a standard scroll-wheel-controlled insertable egg, and a 2 oz. bottle of Please liquid lubricant.

The Please liquid lube is a glycerin- and paraben-free water based lubricant  with no smell and no taste, which is perfect for anyone with sensitive skin or other lube issues. We found it to be a little thick and it quickly turned sticky. We don’t have any skin-sensitivity issues, so we have no need to sacrifice slippery slickness for stickiness.

Within about 5 minutes or less of stroking each other, we were in shock at the glue-like texture of the lube! We immediately washed it off (easy cleanup with soap and water), and started over. The Please Cream lube from an earlier kit was much more to our liking, and we think, the better “Please” lubricant.bunny fufu

The REAL fun of this kit, however, is the Bunny Sleeve!  This jelly bunny fits on the egg and turns it into a great clitoral stimulator. The bunny’s head is a hard nub that transfers the vibrations with ease. This bunny could also be used on standard vibrators, or as you see here, on two fingers.

Bunny is now hard at work on my desk as a lubricant-topper until it’s playtime again!

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